Wisdom Circles

Creating sacred space for dialogue, learning, and belonging.

Picture an evening gathering - in a cozy living room, or around a backyard fire - where twelve eager Jews settle in. Participants take grounding breaths, sing a nigun together, and share an emotion they are bringing to the space, establishing an environment of vulnerability and mutual support. A teaching on the current holiday or Hebrew month and introduction of a midrashic text leads to a hevruta conversation and responsive art-making, inviting creativity, dialogue and shared experiences.

You would never guess that the co-leaders of this learning and ritual had never facilitated a communal Jewish experience before joining one of Ma’alot’s unique circles.

These identity-based groups, currently men, women and queer, bring together 6–12 participants for monthly gatherings stretched over an 13 month period. Each gathering fosters connection, vulnerability and meaning through Jewish text, embodied practice, and peer facilitation. Wisdom Circles take an interactive, participatory, and community-centered approach to education, where learners are actively engaged in the co-construction of knowledge and understanding with peer support. 

Wisdom Circles are small cohorts that foster relational learning and grassroots leadership through monthly gatherings.

Our Identity-Based Circles

Led by Rabbi Joshua Lesser and Dan Arnold, LCSW, the Men’s Wisdom Circle is a monthly cohort for male-identified adults who want to…

  • Take time to slow down and speak honestly about work, identity, relationships, and fatherhood

  • Strengthen their capacity for meaningful ritual and Jewish community life

  • Engage with Jewish texts, art, mindfulness, and shared story casually and without judgement

  • Build relationships that are steady, respectful, and generative

Led by Rabbi Malka Packer and Jaime Stepansky, LSCW, this Circle is a cohort for anyone with lived experience as a girl, woman and/or with femininity who want…

  • To create art, engage in mindful practice and share stories around a monthly curriculum of Jewish texts

  • To grow relationships that are meaningful and supportive through all seasons of life

  • An intergenerational space grounded in personal reflection, collaborative learning and Jewish wisdom

  • To briefly step away from the demands of everyday life while being heard, seen and supported in that challenge

Led by Rabbi Malka Packer, this Circle is a cohort for queer-identified adults, inclusive of trans, non-binary, and cis individuals, looking to...

  • Deepen their sense of connection to and belonging within queer community

  • Build lasting relationships grounded in support, empathy and a shared love of Jewish wisdom and learning

  • Speak openly about the joys and challenges of everyday life around a framework of art, mindful practice and Jewish text.

  • Grow and enhance their community building skills across both similarities and differences

Our Facilitators

Each Wisdom Circle is Co-led by a team of a Jewish Educator and Social Worker

Jaime Stepansky, LCSW
Women’s Circle

Rabbi Malka Packer
Women’s & Queer Circles

Rabbi Josh Lesser
Men’s Circle

Dan Arnold, LCSW
Men’s Circle


The Vision

Wisdom Circles cultivate a Jewish, embodied, relational way of living—one that honors the wisdom of the body, the complexity of lived experience, and the power of sustained community, rooted in our own homes. We call on the insights of our ancestors while paying attention to what is happening within us and between us: how emotion, history, identity, and power shape our participation and our relationships in Jewish life and the world.

Through ritual, reflection, Jewish learning, and collective care, we develop the capacity to speak honestly, listen deeply, and remain present through discomfort. Over time, this builds resilience as the ability to stay connected, responsive, and grounded in a world that pushes us toward burnout and asks us to go it alone. In Wisdom Circles, we wander together—returning again and again through practice, open curiosity, repair, and meaningful relationships.


Why Wisdom Circles

Ma’alot has been piloting Circles for the last two years, creating unique educational environments where participants exchange learning and insights alongside intimate relationship building, discovering new ways to think about Judaism and ritual with trusted peers. The format encourages deep listening and respect for another’s point of view. For those thirsting for new Jewish experiences, circles offer a vital alternative to traditional synagogue attendance, providing a consistent and accessible forum for learning, experimentation, and dialogue that affirms their Jewish experience and identity.

For many, circles serve as their main touchpoint for Jewish life and a source of empowered learning, as past a participant shares: 

“Our Circle helps me feel that Judaism is not just something that’s out there, but that it is alive for me, something that I am discovering and learning more about. Being a Jewish woman is not just something that I am, but something I am learning how to do…we talk about what we want to do in the circle–what rituals to lead ourselves, how we want to present the information, what we want to offer and share. It’s scary and vulnerable to say, I’m going to lead you in an exercise, or I’m going to tell you a story–but so powerful to step into that role.”

You Might be Wondering…

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